ROR NO MORE

Part One:

Things were going well with Rory as of last Thursday until I decided to call him excited to be done with my midterm and he said he just got an unexpected visit from his ex (2 yr gf that broke up with him 3 months ago.....um yeah I mentioned her in my first posting...I knew this girl was trouble!!) I was like oh that must have been awkward. We continued to chat about how he was confused about why she came around because she said she wanted to see how he was doing but didn't want to lead him on. Stuck in the middle of an awk convo I said to keep me updated on the whole situation. Was not feeling good about the whole thing but when he text me the next morning apologized for the convo and said he still wants to see me on Saturday if I want to...I felt a little better.

We went to the MOMA. Had a great time! The museum was awesome. We had good convo as usual. We both got yelled at different times for touching the art. It was funny. I made sure to look super cute that day.....short little skirt and baby tee :) At one point a security guard came up to us and said to Rory..."What are you doing bringing such a gorgeous girl here to rub in our faces? Treat her good man." Kind of awkward but funny at the same time. We went to get some yummy Italian food after that. I had great eggplant. Towards the end I was thinking things were a little off but then thought I was being paranoid.

He text me the next day saying what a great time he had and we continued to text throughout the day. I checked Verizon to see my total monthly texts and I'm up to 199 receive and 175 sent...just to give you an idea of how consistenly we were chatting plus constant IMs and a few phone calls.

PART 2

He IMs me at work on Monday and says he spoke to the ex today and he just doesn't know what to do, he is confused, doesn't know what she wants, and keeps comparing me to her which is not fair. WTF??? I told him work is crazy so we can talk later.

I was thinking about it during class and I knew I was going to have to get rid of this one. So we continue the convo after class...He says the same crap how his head is all over the place and he doesn't know what to do because now he feels like a jerk. How I'm great and doesn't know why he can't be happy with someone wonderful like me, blah blah. But he's comparing me to her and thats not fair to me. And then starts venting over his anger with his ex. I say things like what are you thinking about now, maybe we should chill out for a while, you know how to get in touch with me but you need to fix yourself. He then continues to vent and it was now starting to get annoying.

I say any parting words? I have to get some grub. He says we'll be in touch. I say Peace out chico!

If he wants to check in every once in a while I'm down. But this girl is not waiting for anyone! So I signed onto Match and finally accepted dates with three different guys for this week-ha! One more week of class left and then I can really become a dating machine!!

PS...Jon wrote me an email saying hi the other day. I don't think I'm going to return it. I just don't think there was anything there. After much thought I def need someone more laid back. If I was with him I think I'd be set for a heart attack at 40! But we'll see how these other dates go maybe I will have a change of heart :)